It's Elemental: Growing Pains: Yes there is growth in divorce: The communication between us is becoming singularly about the children. Reaching milestone ages and events in their lives cause me to face the inevitable day when there won't be a reason for us to have that relationship. That is part of the change and growth of a divorced parenting situation.
Some things in life are just elemental - like building blocks and the alphabet; or, primary school and homemade meals. The right to vote and voice an opinion. The privilege to influence your surroundings. Like the right to freedom and opportunity.